It’s an absolute delight to share the captivating story of Jamie and Rebecca’s Little Tey Barn wedding in Essex, a day that exuded whimsy and romance from start to finish. The atmosphere was enchanting, with twinkling fairy lights, lush greenery, and vibrant blooms adorning every nook and cranny. Every detail, from the elegant handwritten signage to the thoughtful date table names, contributed to an overall sense of beauty and intimacy. The stylish attire of the happy couple, paired with the dazzling sequin bridesmaid dresses, made for a visual feast that was impossible to look away from. The barn ceremony, in particular, was a highlight, offering a serene and picturesque backdrop for the celebration. We are grateful to Three Flowers Photography for entrusting us with these breathtaking images, which invite viewers to step into the magic of Jamie and Rebecca’s special day.
Little Tey Barn Wedding
The Proposal
As we celebrated Christmas morning 2019, our household was filled with the excitement of our two young sons opening their presents in our brand-new home, which we had moved into just a week prior. Amidst the chaos, Jamie presented me with a peculiar gift – a shoebox wrapped in festive paper. I carefully opened the first box, only to discover another smaller one, and then another, until finally, I arrived at the ring box. The surprise was nothing short of astonishing! With 16 years of our relationship under our belt, I couldn’t have anticipated this moment any more. Jamie dropped to one knee, and with tears in my eyes, he asked me to spend forever with him. My heart overflowing with joy, I replied with a resounding ‘yes’. The proposal was understated yet perfect – no flashy fireworks or audience necessary. In the warmth of our new home, surrounded by our little family, it felt like the most intimate and special celebration imaginable.
The Vision
With a clear vision in mind, I tasked Starry Eyed Weddings with crafting an enchanting atmosphere that would transport us to a whimsical world of fairy lights and lush florals – the more, the merrier! In direct contrast to traditional formalities, we sought to create an unstructured celebration that honored our lifelong bond. This was not just a wedding, but a joyous gathering where loved ones could come together, indulge in delectable cuisine and refreshing libations, and bask in the warmth of each other’s company.
The Venue
Your Outfits
Finding the perfect wedding dress can be an overwhelming experience, especially when you have a clear idea in mind but struggle to find it among high street options. Despite being impressed by the beautiful dresses at various stores, I just couldn’t get that special feeling. It wasn’t until Hayley from Starry Eyed Weddings recommended Suzanne Harrington, a renowned bridal designer, that I finally found what I was looking for. As soon as I stepped into Suzanne’s shop, I was struck by her exquisite fabrics, modern and vintage laces, and unique designs that perfectly captured the essence of my dream dress. With her guidance, we created a bespoke gown that exceeded my expectations, featuring a delicate sequined lace, soft tulle, and a cap sleeve that made me feel like the best version of myself. I couldn’t recommend Suzanne enough – her patience, kindness, and helpful nature made the entire experience truly unforgettable.In contrast, Jamie’s search for a navy checked three-piece suit was a more straightforward affair. After trying on various options from different suppliers, he settled on a Reiss suit that he had tailored by Bespoke & Tailoring to fit his unique style. His shirt of choice came from Charles Tyrwhitt.
The Ceremony & Music
Your Photographer & Filmmaker
The Styling & Decor
The wedding’s unique aesthetic was brought together through a combination of thoughtful details. The flowers, accessories, and signs were designed in partnership with Starry Eyed Weddings to create a cohesive look that reflected the couple’s personal style. In addition, the decadent cake was crafted by Crazy Strawberry Cakes, adding an extra layer of indulgence to the celebration. To set the tone for the ceremony, the event took place in a dreamy barn with a darker setting, which then transitioned to a light-filled marquee for the reception. A personal touch was added through DIY invites and table signs, while the tableware was carefully selected from CMA to ensure it matched the evening’s ambiance.
The Honeymoon
As our celebration continued beyond the big day, we enjoyed a relaxing mini-moon at Sopwell House just a few days after the wedding. However, life had other plans, and we were forced to reschedule our original getaway to Santorini for June this year due to the unforeseen circumstances of the pandemic.
Memorable Moments
As I reflect on our special day, a few moments stand out as particularly memorable. One of my favorite parts was witnessing the reactions of my dad and bridesmaid when they saw me in my dress for the first time. The looks of joy and surprise on their faces are etched in my memory forever.
As we exchanged our vows, Jamie and I clung to each other’s hands, both of us feeling a mix of emotions. I recall thinking how dashing Jamie looked in his suit, alongside our sons who were also dressed to impress.
During our first dance, our two sons surprised us by joining in, and we danced the rest of the song together as a happy foursome. It was a truly magical moment.
As I glanced around the barn during the party, it struck me that every single person was beaming with happiness, laughing and having an amazing time. That’s exactly what Jamie and I had always hoped for – to create a memorable celebration that our loved ones would treasure.