I’m thrilled to share the enchanting tale of Victoria and Tony’s pink and red wedding at The House Meadow in Kent, held on July 13th, 2019. As a local resident myself, I was delighted to learn that they prioritized supporting local businesses throughout their planning process, which added to the charm of their special day. It’s always a pleasure to feature familiar names and places in my real wedding features, so I’m excited to dive into this lovely celebration. One of the standout elements that caught my attention was the couple’s bold and bohemian colour palette, perfectly harmonizing pink and red hues that were expertly woven throughout the event’s various aspects, from the dramatic flowers to the stationery and attire. At its core, however, their focus remained on creating a relaxed and joyful atmosphere, with an intimate guest list of 70, resulting in a day filled with genuine love and connection. Prepare to be swept away by the stunning images courtesy of Three Flowers Photography, which capture the beauty of Victoria’s dress, Tony’s suit, and all the thoughtful details that made their day so uniquely personal.
The Proposal
As I look back on the story of how Tony proposed to me, I can’t help but chuckle at the unromantic nature of it all. By the time we started discussing marriage, we’d been together for several years, and I knew that Tony’s views on matrimony had evolved over time – largely due to his parents’ tumultuous divorce when he was younger. My own perspective, however, had always been steadfast: I valued marriage deeply, and after our conversation on the A127 in Essex (of all places!), Tony suggested we tie the knot in a quiet, intimate ceremony that I adored. We ultimately decided to celebrate with a small gathering of family and friends back home, rather than having a solo ceremony abroad. It wasn’t until I’d agreed and we began sharing our plans with loved ones – who were, incidentally, incredibly understanding and supportive – that I confessed my secret concern: the thought of exchanging vows without the presence of our closest family members and dear friends. Tony, being the easy-going and affectionate person he is, understood my trepidation and proposed a compromise: we would invite only those individuals who truly meant the world to us. We stuck to this principle, and it proved to be the best decision we ever made. Our proposal wasn’t an elaborate, showy affair; instead, it was a heartfelt conversation between two people discussing their future, with no fanfare or pressure.
The Vision
From the outset, we didn’t have a specific vision in mind; instead, we aimed for an atmosphere that was intimate, fun, and relaxed. Our primary concerns were ensuring our guests left feeling satisfied and well-fed, with plenty of opportunities for socializing and indulging in libations throughout the day.
The Planning Process
Planning our wedding was a two-year journey that started with finding the perfect venue. We chose The House Meadow, a family-run farm with cows, horses, and beautiful woodland. This rustic setting inspired us to incorporate organic elements into our themes. Our caterer, Home Grown, shared our values of locally sourced, responsibly produced food. Their menu featured unique options like mac ‘n cheese canapés, pulled pork, and local cheese boards. Their guidance throughout the planning process was invaluable, providing inspiration for the rest of the wedding. Clare also recommended our florist, Boho Botanicals’ Gwenda, who perfectly captured our color palette with unstructured, boho flower arrangements. We drew inspiration from Pinterest boards, bridal magazines, and friends’ weddings we’d attended. Despite incorporating many ideas, we prioritized keeping the wedding relaxed and fun for our guests.
The Venue
The rustic charm of the House Meadow’s barn is only rivalled by its stunning lake-side setting. The Edison light bulbs suspended from the ceiling cast a warm glow over the characterful old windows and double barn doors that lead out onto a picturesque jetty and rose-encircled gazebo. Amidst this serene backdrop, an ancient oak tree towers above, while the surrounding flower meadow adds a pop of color to the scenery. It’s easy to feel disconnected from the world when surrounded by such natural beauty – we certainly did on our wedding day, enjoying the undivided attention of our loved ones in a setting that truly felt like our own private sanctuary. And then there’s the unique toilet block, crafted from reclaimed materials and boasting a window overlooking the indoor cow paddock. As guests tend to their needs, they’re treated to the friendly faces of Clare’s cattle, adding an endearing touch to an already charming experience. The true star of the House Meadow show, however, is Clare herself. By the time our wedding day arrived, we regarded her as a friend, thanks in large part to her personalized approach to hosting weddings. With a strict limit of just ten nuptials per year, Clare has the capacity to invest in each couple’s experience, offering valuable advice and reassurance throughout the planning process. Her warm recommendations for suppliers only added to our overall satisfaction with the venue, making the House Meadow an unforgettable choice for any couple seeking an intimate and idyllic celebration.
The Cake
Our wedding cake was crafted by Helena at ‘Neighbourhood Bakes’, an esteemed baker who had already won us over with her delectable treats at our favourite cafes in Hitchin. We had previously sampled her work at a friends’ wedding, and we were thrilled to have her create the sweet centerpiece for our special day. The result was a stunning two-tier sponge cake featuring a chocolate and peanut butter layer, accompanied by a tangy lemon-curd filling. The showstopper was the blended marble bottom tier, perfectly co-ordinated with the cream-topped upper tier and matching macaroons. The cake was an unmitigated success, and our guests continue to rave about it even years after the fact.
Your Outfits & Accessories
I visited the Morgan Davies boutique in Hitchin to find my dream dress, which was actually the third one I tried on! Rebecca Simm of Love from Becky worked her magic to ensure the alterations were perfect, and it fit like a glove. The ‘Rosa Clara’ design stole my heart with its intricate beading and layered chiffon tulle skirt. To complement my dress, I chose suede, dusty pink strappy sandals from What Sarah Did, an independent Hitchin boutique. My bee-pearl earrings came from Latelita London, while Alison Moore Designs, a talented Orkney-based designer, crafted our beautiful wedding rings and a stunning hammered bangle that caught my eye.
The Readings & Music
The ceremony featured a heartfelt reading from one of our closest friends, Sam, who shared ‘Perfect Day’ by Brian Bilston with us. As I made my way down the aisle to meet my dad, Florence and The Machine’s rendition of ‘Stand by Me’ set the tone for an emotional moment. Meanwhile, our recessional song, ‘Hooked on a Feeling’ by Blue Swede, brought some much-needed levity to the proceedings, with its iconic intro eliciting laughs from our guests. And as we took our first dance as a married couple, Tony surprised me with Pearl Jam’s beautiful ballad, ‘Our Future Days’, which perfectly captured the promise and excitement of our new life together.
The Details & Décor
We chose to host our ceremony at the Gazebo on the lake’s serene backdrop. To create a unique seating arrangement, we used hay-bales from the venue and added a touch of bohemian flair with Persian rugs from ‘Anthology Vintage’, which we carefully placed between the bales to form an aisle. The rugs’ soft hues complemented our wedding’s overall aesthetic.For the reception area, we hired beautiful furniture pieces from ‘Anthology Vintage’, including plush sofas and armchairs that added a regal touch. We arranged these with rustic trunks and crates to create cozy outdoor lounges, where guests could relax and socialize. To add a personal touch, we decorated the space with a collection of vintage vases and glassware we had gathered over time, filled with tea lights and faux flowers. Throws and blankets were also scattered about to keep guests warm as the evening progressed.To create a whimsical atmosphere, we hired reclaimed school easels to display our table plan and ‘Welcome’ sign, as well as a dark wood dressing table that showcased our ‘Order of Service’ paddles, favors, and confetti cannons. Our wedding stationery, designed by Sarah at Peach & Wolfe, featured beautiful menus, table names, and a stunning ‘Welcome’ sign that reflected the pink and bohemian color palette we had chosen.Given our background in the film industry, we decided to name our tables after iconic films, such as ‘The Goonies’ or ‘Inglorious Basterds’, adding a touch of humor and whimsy. Sarah managed to capture this essence while incorporating our chosen colors into the design.We also hired our tables and chairs from ‘Hire Love’, which provided us with beautiful dark wood seating that complemented the rich floral displays on the tables from Bohotanicals. Although it was an added expense, we felt it was worth it for the unique ambiance it created.In addition to hiring items, we made some of the décor ourselves, using peg boards sourced from bar suppliers and creating a ‘family tree’ by stringing up polaroid photos of our loved ones around the old oak tree. This tribute to those who couldn’t be with us on our special day was a meaningful touch.As the evening drew closer, we set up a make-shift beer-pong table, which ended up being a huge hit with our guests. The sound of laughter and merriment carried across the lake as we took sunset portraits, creating a truly unforgettable moment for both of us.
Beauty
As a makeup artist in TV and film, I’ve had the pleasure of working with an incredible network of talented professionals. My closest friend Lucy Sibbick, who just so happens to be one of my go-to collaborators, helped me achieve the perfect vintage wave hairstyle that morning. Her skillful hands also worked magic on my complexion, crafting a striking dark red lip look that perfectly complemented my overall aesthetic.What’s more, my dear friend Tina Brown brought her expertise to bear on my bridesmaids and mother, ensuring everyone looked radiant and beautiful. Surrounded by such a talented and supportive group of friends on what was already a momentous day, I felt truly blessed to have them in my life. Their presence added an extra layer of joy and relaxation to the morning, making it all the more special.
The Flowers
As we entrusted the floral arrangements for our special day to Gwenda from ‘Bohotanicals’, she expertly crafted a visually stunning combination of bouquets, buttonholes, and table arrangements that perfectly captured the essence of our wedding. I had shared images of our bridesmaid’s outfits and groomsmen’s attire with her, which served as inspiration for her creative genius. The table arrangements, beautifully displayed in vintage-style brown glass bottles, featured a harmonious blend of light pink Hydrangeas, lush palms, and deep red and plum roses – a masterful tie-in to our wedding colour scheme. When Gwenda delivered the bouquets that morning, I was overwhelmed with emotion; they exceeded every expectation I had, and I found myself mesmerized by their beauty.
Groomsmen
Tony’s attire was sourced from a local gem in Hitchin, HRH Holmes & Son, where he picked up his light grey tweed suit and brown Barker brogues. We made it a priority to support our hometown businesses throughout the wedding planning process, and Tony’s groomsmen followed suit by renting their suits from the same store. To add a pop of colour, we purchased maroon ties and coordinating floral pocket-squares from Mrs Bow Tie.
Bridesmaids
I curated the bridesmaid attire from Whistles, Monsoon, and Re-written. Each attendant was dressed in a distinct color that complemented our overall aesthetic of pinks, plums, and reds. To ensure their comfort, I granted each bridesmaid final approval over my suggestions. The end result featured a plum A-line dress from Monsoon, a light pink jumpsuit with floral patterns from Whistles, and a stunning red maxi dress from Re-written. My sister also wore a captivating flower comb in her hair, created by Rebecca Simm of ‘Love From Becky’, which harmonized beautifully with the color palette.
Your Filmmaker
After discovering the impressive work of ‘Tea for Two’ Films online, we were thrilled to learn that Olivia and Zac had created films we adored in the past. Despite initial budget concerns, we decided to book them on the spot. On the day of our event, they proved to be an absolute delight to have around, effortlessly blending into the atmosphere while still capturing the essence of our special moment. Their highlight film is a true masterpiece – it’s lively, energetic, and beautifully captures the joy and love that filled our wedding day. We can’t wait to treasure this amazing film for years to come.
Your Photographer
After attending a close friend’s wedding and being impressed by the work of photographer Charlotte Kitchenside from Three Flowers Photography, I was sold on her unobtrusive and relaxed approach. When it came time to book a photographer for my own wedding, I knew exactly who to call. As a documentary-style photographer, Charlotte understands that sometimes the best moments are captured spontaneously, rather than posed for a camera. Her attention to detail and commitment to producing high-quality images were evident in every photograph she took. The vibrant colors and rich tones of her work had us laughing out loud at even the most mundane moments, thanks in part to her infectious sense of humor. Charlotte and her team put even the most awkward of couples at ease, allowing them to be themselves in front of the camera. As a result, we have beautiful, professionally captured memories that adorn our home.
The Honeymoon
Our adventure took us to Portugal, where we immersed ourselves in unique accommodations. We started at an eco-friendly design hotel in Santa Cruz, set amidst a 200-year-old ranch and winery in Monsaraz. The picturesque hills of Porto provided the backdrop for our stay at a charming boutique hotel, while Lisbon offered us a vibrant city apartment experience. The diversity of our accommodations only added to the excitement of exploring this captivating country.
Memorable Moments
Our special day was filled with countless moments we’ll cherish forever. While staying close with friends and family in the days leading up to the big event, we made a weekend out of celebrating, which added an extra layer of excitement. However, it’s our ceremony that still takes our breath away. The heartfelt speeches were especially poignant, leaving many with tears in their eyes. We even had the privilege of experiencing what we believe to be the most exceptional ‘Best Man Speech’ ever! Our party and live band brought everything full circle, capping off a truly unforgettable evening. Throughout it all, we relished every moment alongside those who hold the greatest significance in our lives.
Advice For Other Couples
The lead-up to our wedding was marked by constant financial stress as we struggled to fund the big day. But our determination paid off, and we’re thrilled that we didn’t hesitate to spend every penny – it truly was worth it. We celebrated in a way that felt authentic to us, and it’s a memory we’ll treasure forever.
In terms of guest management, we stuck to our guns and decided to keep things intimate with just 70 attendees. This wasn’t an easy decision, particularly given the size of our social circle and the likelihood that some long-distance loved ones might feel left out. However, we prioritized the people who truly mattered to us, and as a result, our wedding was filled with love, laughter, and unwavering support.
Credit Where Credit Is Due
With a wealth of expertise and creativity, the following vendors brought Victoria and Tony’s special day to life: Photographer Three Flowers Photography captured every precious moment, while Videographer Tea For Two Films ensured their love story would be preserved forever. The charming Venue, The House Meadow, provided a picturesque backdrop for the celebrations. Caterer Home Gurr’own delighted guests with delicious fare, and Florist Bohotanicals added a touch of elegance with its beautiful arrangements. Persian Rugs, Outdoor Lounges, and Props from Anthology Vintage Hire added a vintage flair to the proceedings. For dining, tables, chairs, and props were expertly handled by Hire Love. A sweet treat was provided by Cake Neighbourhhod Bakes, while Stationery Peach Wolfe helped create a lasting impression. Cars Molly’s Classic Wedding Cars transported guests in style. Victoria’s stunning Dress, designed by Rosa Clara @ Morgan Davies, was altered to perfection by Love From Becky. The bridesmaid dresses were crafted by Whistles, Re-Written & Monsoon. Makeup and Hair styling was taken care of by Lucy Sibbick & Tina Brown, while the Bride’s Earrings were a sparkling highlight from Latelita London. Wedding Rings & Jewellery were designed by Alison Moore Designs. The Soundcasters provided the music that kept everyone dancing all night. We’re grateful to Victoria and Tony for sharing their wonderful story with us, and sending love, Lou.